IT MAKES SENSE TO ME
By Larry Peterson
Valentine’s Day has been hijacked by the movie, “50 Shades of Grey”. A day that is all about love and romance and flowers and candy and hugs and kisses has been turned into a celebration of deviance and depravity. In fact, the movie celebrates the degradation of women. And it is being glorified and praised as the “great love story of our day. What kind of bizarre and twisted nonsense is this?
Here is part of one advertisement from a company by the name of “pink cherry.com.” It is one of many spread throughout cyber world advertising this years preferred Valentine’s Day gifts. These gifts are being offered because of the “50 Shades of Grey” book trilogy and movie:
“Indulge in the steamy world of Fifty Shades of Grey, a New York Times #1 Best Seller from new author E. L. James. Explore the possibilities of how both the book and related toys can bring you and your partners to new levels of excitement and pleasure. Let the world of Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele bring you to a place you may have never explored–or only just toyed with. The possibilities are endless—“
This is the blurb from the movie theaters in my surrounding area promoting the film for the Valentine’s Day weekend:
SYNOPSIS: Fifty Shades of Grey is the hotly anticipated adaption of the best selling book that has become a global phenomenon. Since its release, the Fifty Shades” trilogy has sold more than 100 million copies in e-book and print–making it one of the biggest and fastest selling book series ever. Stepping into the roles of Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele, who have become iconic to millions of readers, are Jamie Dornan and Dakota Johnson–
I am a man and I just do not understand. This aberration called Fifty Shades of Grey promotes a debased and contorted view of how love can be. It offers to women the narrative that being handcuffed, beaten, chained and/or whipped (among other things) is sexually stimulating and could lead to a “happily ever after” ending. Does not the independent, supposedly liberated woman of the 21st century find Anastasia Steele submissive, weak and needy? What about her self-respect and dignity? Christian Grey chews it up and spits it out. She is an object to him, not a real person.
Debased as this story is the movie trailer, based on the novel, logged in more than 36 million YouTube views in its first week. Women LOVE this book (over 100 million sold mostly to women) and the movie will pack them in over the Valentine’s Day weekend. I do not get it.
To all you women out there let this “old fool” tell you a few things. First of all, a real man will respect you as a woman and a person. He will not try to manipulate you, subjugate you or coerce you into doing anything that you do not want to. (Of course, early on, he will be on his best behavior in his quest to get you to like him. If he is not–RUN.) Secondly, He will NOT demand to constantly know where you have been or what you are doing. Third, he will honor your wants and needs and you will know in your heart if he is “full of it”. A relationship is a two way street. A mutual trust and respect must be shared between you. It is the basis of all things going forward.
We are all God’s children. Men and women compliment each other. It is NATURAL. It is the way it is supposed to be. Tom Cruise and Renee Zellweger starred in the movie, “Jerry McGuire”. At he end of the movie, Jerry (played by Cruise) says to Dorothy (played by Zellweger) “You complete me”. It was the defining moment for Jerry and Dorothy. I believe that one scene is what made the film the big hit that it was because, as they embraced and kissed, everyone watching was now able to feel them sharing the love that they had for each other. Those three words summed up the way a permanent relationship between a man and a woman should be. They should “complete each other”.
Finally, you might consider that the sex part of the relationship is a perk. It is a beautiful thing to share between two people in love. But it is NOT the “end all” or the most important thing or the only thing. The BEST part of the sex should be after it is over and you can just be together holding each other and feeling the love flow between you. You have shared with each other your very heart and souls. You have completed each other and you did not need handcuffs.
copyright 2015 Larry Peterson
by Larry Peterson
Three months ago the civilized, highly sophisticated nation of Belgium looked on as the collective wisdom of the upscale Belgium Social Justice Committee coagulated into making a recommendation to Parliament that they should approve a bill which would legalize euthanasia for children. Well now, what do you know? Belgium’s lawmakers heeded the advice and OVERWHELMINGLY voted to extend the country’s euthanasia law to children under 18 (they have had the law in place for adults since 2002) . They passed this bill on February 13th. The nation awoke on the morning of Valentine’s Day ready and willing to enjoy the holiday sharing love with each other. But this Valentine’s Day came with a new twist. They found out that once King Phillippe signed the bill just passed kids can willingly, surrounded by a LOVING support group which will include parents, doctor and shrink, “happily and mercifully” kill themselves.
How loving, how compassionate, how civilized so many people have become. There is wide public support from the Belgian people (unbelievably predominantly catholic) for this bill which passed by a 2 to 1 majority. Socialist, Hans Bonte, said, “all Belgians, including MINORS, deserved the right to bid farewell to life in humane circumstances without having to fear they were breaking the law”. Heaven forbid, can you imagine a seriously ill child dealing with the added burden of fearing they might also break a law? Are you kidding me? One independent House member, Laurent Louis, stood up and said that the majority of his colleagues were violating the natural order. “A child is to be nurtured and protected, all the way to the end, whatever happens. You do not kill it.” He was mocked.
The Catholic Church and the Belgian clergy are vehemently opposed and have been right along. But they are those “old, out of touch, church leaders telling people what they should and should not do. Well , God bless them. Those “old fools” are standing tall in the face of an evil that has embraced a once beautiful country which has now turned ugly wrapped in a shroud of secularism. Belgian law now allows for the killing of sick children . How have so many been able to advance into the meistic, secular world of the 21st century where deciding who should live and die is the preferred virtue of goodness. When did the folks who are “stuck” in the conscience driven world of God first, followed by family and country and who defend ALL life, get relegated to the ranks of the “ungood”?
The Catholic Church is not in a popularity contest with the secular world. It is also not in a popularity contest with those who proclaim to be Catholic yet defy the church’s teachings. The Church is the way to the Truth and it is defending and protecting the faith it was created to defend. It defends the right to life of all, from the unborn to the sick, disabled, deformed, mentally challenged, elderly and those simply unwanted. It is standing tall in Belgium and saying, “NO!” to this abomination. At what point in time did secular mankind decide that it could “kill” as an act of love? Is it because “love” is all about kindness and virtue and they were the ones who embraced it? How sanitized yet preposterous is that? No, the “love” of the secular world is about self-love before all else. People know best and those in power are omniscient.
How sad this all is that folks who respect the very dignity, beauty and miraculous creation of each life have suddenly been “flipped” into the category of “heartless and cruel” by a secular world that defiles all those who might dare disagree with it? Tear down the crosses, ban the name of God, ridicule the churches and their priests and nuns. This hypocrisy is not “love” but rather, “anti-love”. Don’t these people understand the dark underbelly of this entire concept? Apparently, they do not. But they have chosen to take the road of personal gratification deifying their own selves. And that is what happens when God is removed from the equation of life…you come to believe you have the right to kill children. How did we ever become so civilized?
IT MAKES SENSE TO ME
by Larry Peterson
Valentine’s Day is here. It is supposed to be all about Love. Yet beyond the heart covered Valentine cards, the flower bouquets and candy and all of that, we must, as unpleasant as it may be, recognize what we truly have going on this Valentine’s Day of 2014. Yes, make no mistake, Love is under attack this Valentine’s Day and the war is brutal and bloody.
The Catholic News Agency (CNA/EWTN News) reported today that Christians are the most persecuted people on earth. Why is that? Why is there such hatred by so many toward something that is all about goodness and love? The word “CHRISTIAN” comes from the name of Christ, Jesus Christ. Okay, is that a BAD thing? I don’t think so.
All Christians (including 1.2 billion Catholics and 800 million Protestants of varied denominations) follow Jesus Christ. That is 2 billion people or two thousand million people who follow His teachings and His promise of Eternal Life. What is the crux of His teachings? Well now, the bottom line is this, LOVE your NEIGHBOR & FORGIVENESS. Yeah, yeah, I know that many who proclaim to follow Jesus do not even make an attempt to Love their Neighbor or Forgive anyone for anything. They let that old, deadly sin of pride rule their roost. Oh well, it is part of God’s gift of free-will allowing each and every one of us to make choices. However, the vast majority of Catholic/Christians do their feeble best to follow His message. For those that do it is a life-long work in progress and this was true even for the saints.
So, why the hatred? Why the persecution? Why were more than 100,000 followers of Christ murdered in the past year alone? The problem is the aforementioned deadly sin of pride. Why? Because pride has filled the hearts of many and these are the people who now HATE. What they hate most is one word which is made up of only two letters. That word is NO. They want no-one dare telling them what to do or how to behave. They have embraced secularism (defined as: a system of political or social philosophy that rejects all forms of religious faith and worship). Christianity establishes boundaries. Christianity tells us what God wants us to do and what NOT to do…why, the NERVE of Him! So, many Secularists (not all) take it to another level in their personal, selfish requests to abolish the influence of institutions that have the temerity to say NO to certain behaviors. They even reject “natural law” for their own personal agendas.
They rant against Christmas which is all about “giving”. They rail on about using the name of God in schools and at sports events. They want Crosses at cemeteries taken down from the graves of fallen soldiers. In many cases those who hate Christians kill them. Men, women and children die every day in different parts of the world simply because they are followers of Jesus. How can Love & Forgiveness be things to hate?
Well, nothing has changed since Jesus walked the earth two thousand years ago. He preached Love & Forgiveness so they beat Him, tortured Him and killed Him. The loving crowds who screamed “Hosanna” on Palm Sunday turned fickle and screamed “Crucify Him” the following Friday. The list of people murdered for following Jesus over the centuries (including his own apostles) is countless. Being a Catholic and Christian was never supposed to be easy. Jesus Christ did nothing but Love us, each and every one of us. Look what happened to Him.
So, on this Valentine’s Day, the question to be considered might be this. What is Love? The answer can be found in the Bible in the First Letter of John; Ch 4: 16-17. “We have come to know and believe in the love God has for us. God IS Love, and whoever remains in Love remains in God and God in Him.
Sadly today, February 14, 2014, the war on Love increases in intensity.